OHIO, USA —
The holidays are supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year. But for some, concerns about safety are the priority.
Domestic violence calls increase during the holidays. The director of victim services for the YWCA, Rachael Gardner, said 20% of the calls they receive throughout the year are in November and December.
The holidays bring additional stressors that don't excuse domestic violence but can contribute to it.
Gardner said financial stress, traveling and preparing for family can add pressure. Alcohol and drug use can increase the pattern of violent behavior.
"Like throwing out the Christmas gifts, not allowing them to be bought, destroying them, or picking a fight before a big event," Gardner said.
Gardner said this time of year can be difficult for survivors to navigate.
"There's also a lot of survivors who are trying to get through the holiday and are having some strong feelings about trying to keep their family together and at least get through the holiday before they decide anything," Gardner said.
Policy director for the Ohio Domestic Violence Network, Maria York, said victims of domestic violence are at a higher risk of death this time of year as they don't always have the opportunity to reach out for support.
Just since July in Ohio, there have been 46 domestic violence-related deaths, according to York.
"The majority of those did happen October, November, and of course, December is still happening but we are seeing a sharp increase during these fall and winter months leading up to the holidays," York said.
Gardner said if you think someone in your family is experiencing domestic violence, show you're there for them and don't let them be isolated.
"Most of the time, really almost all the time, a survivor first tells a friend or family member what is happening to them before they reach out to someplace like the YWCA," Gardner said.
Multiple local and national resources are available throughout the holidays if someone needs help.
People can create a personal safety plan through the National Domestic Violence Hotline's website. The YWCA also has a 24/7 domestic violence hotline that can be called at 419-241-7386.